{"id":194,"date":"2024-12-07T22:49:43","date_gmt":"2024-12-07T19:49:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/?p=194"},"modified":"2024-12-09T11:09:27","modified_gmt":"2024-12-09T08:09:27","slug":"bir-osmanli-kadini-kayinvalidem-ayse-akinci","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/2024\/12\/07\/bir-osmanli-kadini-kayinvalidem-ayse-akinci\/","title":{"rendered":"Bir Osmanl\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131; \u00a0Kay\u0131nvalidem Ay\u015fe ak\u0131nc\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Biz d\u00fcnyadan gider olduk \/ Kalanlara selam olsun           <\/em><\/strong>    <\/em><\/strong> Bizim i\u00e7in hay\u0131r dua \/ K\u0131lanlara selam olsun.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ailemizin as\u0131rl\u0131k \u00e7\u0131narlar\u0131 kay\u0131npederim Abdurrahim Ak\u0131nc\u0131 ve kay\u0131nvalidem Ay\u015fe Ak\u0131nc\u0131 iki ay arayla pe\u015fpe\u015fe bu d\u00fcnyadan g\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcp gittiler.Adeta 90 y\u0131ll\u0131k hayatlar\u0131 boyunca oldu\u011fu gibibirbiriyle el ele tutu\u015farak dillerinde \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr zikri, sessiz, sakin, m\u00fctevekkil, g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fckleri gibi ahirete yolculu\u011funa da y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcler. Art\u0131k \u00f6ylece yan yana KaracaAhmet\u2018de ebedi istirahatgahlar\u0131nda dinleniyorlar<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Onlar\u0131n ard\u0131ndan ya\u015fayan hat\u0131ralar, silik foto\u011fraflar, \u00f6rnek al\u0131nacak g\u00fczellikler, tatl\u0131 an\u0131lar kald\u0131. Evlerinin \u00f6n\u00fcnden ge\u00e7erken sanki hala pencerden, balkondan bak\u0131yor, arkam\u0131zdan g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u00fcyor gibi hissediyoruz<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kay\u0131nvalidem Ay\u015fe han\u0131m e\u015fi Abdurrahim beyden tam 52 g\u00fcn sonra ahiret yolculu\u011funa gitti onun vefat\u0131ndan sonra bizim evde kal\u0131yordu ve \u2018ben onsuz eve nas\u0131l girece\u011fim o benim hem kocam hem annem hem babamd\u0131\u2019<\/strong> diye a\u011flard\u0131. Sanki onu d\u00fcnyaya ve hayata ba\u011flayan sa\u011flam dal kopmu\u015ftu. Bir m\u00fcddet sonra O\u2019da e\u015fi gibi dilinde zikir ve Kuran ile, m\u00fctevekkil bir yolcu dervi\u015f gibi yava\u015f yava\u015f ufukta kaybolup gitti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Baz\u0131 arkada\u015flar vefat\u0131ndan sonra aradan ge\u00e7en s\u00fcreyi s\u00f6yleyerek sanki biraz beklemi\u015f acaba<\/p>\n\n\n\n

aralar\u0131nda bir k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k m\u0131 var diye sormu\u015flard\u0131. Yakla\u015f\u0131k yetmi\u015f iki  y\u0131ll\u0131k evlilik hayatlar\u0131nda birbirini k\u0131rmayan, y\u00fcksek sesle bile konu\u015fmayan iki g\u00fczel insan\u0131n ne gibi k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olur dedim. Ama sonra d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcnce tatl\u0131 bir an\u0131 olarak hat\u0131rlad\u0131m.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kay\u0131npederim Abdurrahim bey son zamanlarda kalp ve beyinden rahats\u0131z oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in kay\u0131nvalidem Ay\u015fe Han\u0131m O\u2019nun \u00fczerine \u00e7ok titrer, titizlenir adeta yan\u0131ndan, dizinin dibinden ay\u0131rmak istemezdi. Abdurrahim bey camiden eve gecikti\u011finde tela\u015flan\u0131r, \u00f6nce pencereden  etrafa bakar daha sonra telefona sar\u0131l\u0131r bizi arard\u0131. Gelince de \u00f6nce  O\u2019na, sonra camii arkada\u015flar\u0131na ve bize de sitem ederdi. Camiden d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015flerin uzad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanlar telefonla arayarak; \u2018 baban\u0131z nerede kald\u0131 acaba hastanede mi bir yerde mi d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc kald\u0131<\/strong>\u2019 diye \u00e7ok endi\u015fe eder, o y\u00fczden de camiye g\u00f6ndermek istemezdi. Be\u015f vakit camide cemaatle olmaya \u00e7ok gayret eden babam\u0131zla bu y\u00fczden zaman zaman tart\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 hatta dar\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131 oluyordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vefat\u0131ndan sonra devaml\u0131 okudu\u011fu Kur\u2019an-\u0131 Kerim\u2019i k\u0131z\u0131-E\u015fim Esma han\u0131m a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131nda arka sayfada bir notla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatt\u0131. Devaml\u0131 Kur\u2019an okuyan, bitirdi\u011fi hatimlerini isteyen insanlara ba\u011f\u0131\u015flayan Hac\u0131 Anne bu defa kendisi ve beyi i\u00e7in hatim haz\u0131rlam\u0131\u015f ve arka kapa\u011fa not alm\u0131\u015f. Bu notta \u2018okudu\u011fum 15 hatimin 5 i Hac\u0131 efendiye 10 tanesi de bana ay\u0131rd\u0131m,  benim arkamdan duas\u0131n\u0131 yapar ba\u011f\u0131\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z\u2019<\/strong> diye yazm\u0131\u015f E\u015fim g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 i\u00e7inde anac\u0131\u011f\u0131m kendi hatimlerini de haz\u0131rlayarak gitmi\u015f diye s\u00f6yledi<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Antalya Akseki\u2018den 1963 y\u0131llar\u0131nda \u0130stanbul Zeytinburnuna gelmi\u015fler, \u00f6nce ge\u00e7ici bir s\u00fcre kalmay\u0131 sonra k\u00f6ye d\u00f6nmeyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken ac\u0131 gurbet vatan olmu\u015f. Akseki- Emira\u015f\u0131klar k\u00f6y\u00fcnde yeni yapt\u0131klar\u0131 evde bir k\u0131\u015f oturduktan sonra \u0130stanbul\u2019a yerle\u015fmi\u015fler. Kay\u0131npederim  seyyar sat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k, pazrc\u0131l\u0131k, kemer at\u00f6lyesi vs bir \u00e7ok i\u015fle yo\u011fun \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken kay\u0131nvalidem \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n hem annesi hem babas\u0131 olmu\u015f, onlar\u0131 dinine, \u00f6rf\u00fcne ba\u011fl\u0131 Anadolu irfan\u0131 aile terbiyesi ile yeti\u015ftirmeye gayret etmi\u015f hem de kendisini yeti\u015ftirecek ilim sohbetler,nden ve vaazlardan geri kalmam\u0131\u015f bir Osmanl\u0131 han\u0131m\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sohbetlerine devam etti\u011fi alimler G\u00f6nenli Mehmet Efendi\u2019den  Osman Hocaefendi efendiye, Fatih caminde \u015eaban efendi, Adalar vaizi Fahrettin hoca efendiye kadar bir \u00e7ok alimi dinlemi\u015f ve imkanlar\u0131 \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcnde dinlediklerinden akl\u0131nda kalanlar\u0131 bir deftere not eder, tan\u0131d\u0131klar\u0131na, kom\u015fular\u0131na ,etraf\u0131na da anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f m\u00fcmine bir han\u0131md\u0131<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her i\u015fini zaman\u0131nda yapar, ertesi g\u00fcne i\u015f b\u0131rakmazd\u0131. Her konuda m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7i, edep ve adap timsali, temiz, titiz, hassas, gayretli bir Anadolu han\u0131m\u0131yd\u0131. Evini g\u00f6rg\u00fcs\u00fc, bilgisi, hal ve hareketi ile s\u0131ms\u0131cak bir aile yuvas\u0131 yapar, geleni her daim g\u00fcler y\u00fczle kar\u015f\u0131lar ikramlar\u0131 yemekleri hep haz\u0131r olurdu. \u00d6zellikle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaprak sarmalar\u0131, kurban bayramlar\u0131nda kavurmalar\u0131 \u00e7ok lezzetli olur, her daim tad\u0131 dama\u011f\u0131mda kal\u0131rd\u0131. Ya\u015flan\u0131nca arada s\u0131rada latifeyle tak\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131m \u2018anne art\u0131k eskisi gibi bize yaprak sarmas\u0131 yap\u0131p ikram etmiyorsun, eskidik art\u0131k bizi unuttun\u2019 dedi\u011fimde \u2018 Evlad\u0131m art\u0131k eskisi gibi g\u00fcc\u00fcm kuvvetim kalmad\u0131 yoksa her zaman yan\u0131mda degerlisiniz<\/strong> derdi<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Seher vakitlerinde uyan\u0131k olur i\u015frak vaktine kadar zikir kuran ve tesb\u00eehatla me\u015fgul olurdu \u2018Evlad\u0131m g\u00fcne\u015f \u00fczerinize do\u011fmas\u0131n, evinizin ve kazanc\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bereketi ka\u00e7ar\u2019<\/strong> derdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kay\u0131npederim ve kay\u0131nvalidemin sabah namazlar\u0131nda ve seher vakitlerinde uyuduklar\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7 hat\u0131rlam\u0131yorum. \u00d6zellikle sabah namaz\u0131ndan sonra her yer sessiz bir sukunet i\u00e7erisinde iken hafif sesle okuduklar\u0131 Kur\u2019an-\u0131 Kerim in manevi havas\u0131 sabah\u0131n sessizli\u011finde evin i\u00e7erisinde tatl\u0131 bir ahenkle yay\u0131l\u0131r, adeta bir nurdan dalgalar gibi evimizi ve \u00e7evresini doldururdu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hayatlar\u0131nda \u0130slami de\u011ferlerle y\u00f6resel adetleri \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir \u015fekilde birle\u015ftirmi\u015f ve hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 bir b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fck i\u00e7erisinde ya\u015famaya cal\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015flard\u0131. evinde ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131k d\u00f6neminde  bile bir d\u00fczensizlik, da\u011f\u0131n\u0131kl\u0131k, kirlilik g\u00f6remezdiniz. Mutfaktaki bula\u015f\u0131klar hemen an\u0131nda y\u0131kan\u0131r ve yerlerine d\u00fczenli olarak yerle\u015ftirilirdi. O\u2019na g\u00f6re eviin kirli, da\u011f\u0131n\u0131k ve d\u00fczensiz olmas\u0131 mutfakta bula\u015f\u0131klar\u0131n birikmesi evin, kazanc\u0131n bereketini ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131r diye s\u00f6ylerdi<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir defas\u0131nda alt kom\u015fular\u0131 olan Tar\u0131k bey\u2019 de mahalle sohbetimiz vard\u0131. \u0130kramlardan sonra Tar\u0131k beylerin evi biraz k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck oldu\u011fundan namaz k\u0131lmak i\u00e7in kay\u0131nbabamlar\u0131n \u00fcst kattaki evine ve biraz daha geni\u015f salonuna \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131k.Namaz\u0131 burada k\u0131l\u0131p sohbeti ve duay\u0131 da burada yapal\u0131m dedik ve sohbet o \u015fekilde tamamland\u0131. Arkada\u015flar gittikten sonra kay\u0131nvalidem Ay\u015fe han\u0131m\u0131n g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 i\u00e7erisinde \u015f\u00f6yle soyledigini hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. \u2018D\u00fcn ak\u015fam r\u00fcyamda Esad \u00c7o\u015fan hocam\u0131z evimizi ziyarete gelmi\u015fti ben de evi topluyordum hocam\u0131z tek tek odalar\u0131 gezip g\u00f6rd\u00fckten sonra o ma\u015fallah g\u00fczelmi\u015f bizim karde\u015flerimiz de gelsin burada sohbet yaps\u0131nlar demi\u015fti bug\u00fcn r\u00fcyam ger\u00e7ek oldu elhamd\u00fclillah<\/strong> diye s\u00f6ylemi\u015fti<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ilerledi\u011fi son zamanlar\u0131nda bizim evde yat\u0131yor, e\u015fim Esma han\u0131m onu hi\u00e7 yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakm\u0131yordu. E\u015fim Esma Han\u0131m \u00f6ks\u00fcr\u00fck n\u00f6betinin yo\u011fun oldu\u011fu uykusuz ge\u00e7en bir gece sabaha yak\u0131n r\u00fcyas\u0131nda Rahmetli Esad Co\u015fan Hocam\u0131z\u0131 Kay\u0131nvalidem\u2019in ba\u015f ucunda dua ederken g\u00f6r\u00fcyor. Heyecan ve sevin\u00e7 kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131 bir duyguyla derin bir uykuya dalm\u0131\u015f. Nas\u0131l olsa Esad Hocam\u0131z annemin yan\u0131nda diye huzur i\u00e7inde uyudum sabah kalkt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda annemin \u00f6ks\u00fcr\u00fck n\u00f6beti de azalm\u0131\u015f, uykusu da rahatlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131 dedi. Bir ka\u00e7 g\u00fcn sonra da vefat edince Hocam\u0131z annemi kar\u015f\u0131lamaya geldi herhalde diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zorluklarla ge\u00e7en bir hayat\u0131n ard\u0131ndan, bereketli dual\u0131 bir \u00f6m\u00fcr ya\u015fay\u0131p Kuran ve iman ehli olarak ahrete g\u00f6\u00e7t\u00fc. Sa\u011flam bir iman ve g\u00fczel bir ahlak sahibi oldu\u011funa \u015fahidiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Biz d\u00fcnyadan gider olduk \/ Kalanlara selam olsun               Bizim i\u00e7in hay\u0131r dua \/ K\u0131lanlara selam olsun. Ailemizin as\u0131rl\u0131k \u00e7\u0131narlar\u0131 kay\u0131npederim Abdurrahim Ak\u0131nc\u0131 ve [Devam\u0131]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":202,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-194","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/194","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=194"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/194\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":204,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/194\/revisions\/204"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/202"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=194"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=194"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=194"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}