\u201c Asra Yemin olsun ki, insano\u011flu ziyandad\u0131r. Ancak iman edenler, salih amel i\u015fleyenler ve birbirine hayr\u0131 ve sabr\u0131 tavsiye edenler m\u00fcstesna (Asr Suresi:1-3)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBa\u015fkas\u0131na uzatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n el, asl\u0131nda sana uzanan yard\u0131m elidir\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ilk defa Nurullah Gen\u00e7 hocan\u0131n hat\u0131ralar\u0131n\u0131 anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u2018Omuzlar\u0131mda D\u00fcnya \u2018 kitab\u0131nda okumu\u015ftum. Nurullah Gen\u00e7\u2019in kitab\u0131nda anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re; dedesi Bekir A\u011fa,1.D\u00fcnya Sava\u015f\u0131 g\u00fcnlerinde uzun y\u0131llar Sibirya\u2019da Rus esaretinde kalm\u0131\u015f \u00e7ileler \u00e7ekmi\u015f. Esaret y\u0131llar\u0131nda bile her zaman insanlara yard\u0131m eden onlara iyilikten geri kalmayan irfan ehli bir insan olarak ac\u0131 esaret y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 tamamlam\u0131\u015f. Esaretten d\u00f6nerken daha \u00f6nce yard\u0131m elini uzatarak hayat\u0131n\u0131 kurtard\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir Rus zengin, trende onu di\u011fer vagonlara b\u0131rakmay\u0131p yan\u0131nda ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 koltu\u011fa oturtmu\u015f. Uzun yolculuk esnas\u0131nda vuku bulan tren kazas\u0131nda onlar\u0131n vagonu hari\u00e7 di\u011fer vagonlardaki t\u00fcm yolcular \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015f. Dedesi bu olay\u0131 anlat\u0131rken \u201cBen o Rus\u2019un hayat\u0131n\u0131 kurtard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 san\u0131yordum.Sonradan anlad\u0131m ki me\u011fer kendi hayat\u0131m\u0131 kurtarm\u0131\u015f\u0131m.O yard\u0131m elini asl\u0131nda kendime uzatm\u0131\u015f\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Herkesin hayat\u0131nda benzer olaylar vard\u0131r. Ba\u015fkas\u0131na yard\u0131m etti\u011finizde bir zaman sonra sizin de bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, dertlerinizin azald\u0131\u011f\u0131, m\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcllerinizin halloldu\u011funu g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015fs\u00fcn\u00fczd\u00fcr. Nebevi bir m\u00fcjdedir: \u201cKim bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n d\u00fcnyada s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 giderirse, Allah da Onun k\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fcnde bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 giderir.\u201d (Ebu Davud)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mutlulu\u011fun form\u00fcl\u00fc de asl\u0131nda bu nebevi m\u00fcjde de sakl\u0131. Ki\u015fisel mutluluklar ge\u00e7ici oluyor. Birlikte mutlu olmak daha anlaml\u0131 ve kal\u0131c\u0131. Yine bir atas\u00f6z\u00fcnde s\u00f6ylendi\u011fi gibi \u2018Mutluluklar payla\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131r, \u00dcz\u00fcnt\u00fcler payla\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a azal\u0131r.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayatta kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 problemlerle ba\u015f etmekte zorlanan, dertlerini yenmek isteyen, psikolojik sorunlar\u0131 olan, nas\u0131l mutlu olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 soran bir\u00e7ok tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131ma tavsiyem hep \u015fu olur: Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n dertleriyle ilgilen! Onlar\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcne yard\u0131mc\u0131 ol, seninde dertlerin \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcl\u00fcr. \u0130yilik, her iki taraf\u0131 da iyile\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu konuda bizzat ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m, ilk elden \u015fahidi oldu\u011fum hayat\u0131mdaki birka\u00e7 ibretli hat\u0131ray\u0131 payla\u015fay\u0131m. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flar\u0131mda a\u011f\u0131r bir b\u00f6brek hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ge\u00e7irmi\u015ftim. Sivas\u2019\u0131n G\u00fcr\u00fcn il\u00e7esinde so\u011fuk k\u0131\u015f \u015fartlar\u0131nda yo\u011fun kar ya\u011f\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n kapatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yollardan zorluklarla Sivas\u2019a gitmi\u015f Numune Hastanesinde yakla\u015f\u0131k 1 ay tedavi g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm. Ben hastanede yatarken annem yan\u0131mda refakat\u00e7i kal\u0131yor, babam da bir akraban\u0131n otelinde kal\u0131yor, bizi ziyarete geliyordu. G\u00fcnlerce s\u00fcren tedaviden sonra,doktorlar\u0131n \u2018art\u0131k tedavinin fayda vermedi\u011fi, benim Ankara\u2019da \u00fcniversite hastanesine sevk edilmemi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckleri\u2019 g\u00fcnlerde tekrar yo\u011fun kar ya\u011f\u0131\u015f\u0131 ve tipiden yollar kapanm\u0131\u015f biz de sevk edildi\u011fimiz halde Ankara\u2019ya hastaneye gidememi\u015ftik. Kar ya\u011f\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 bir \u00e7ok ara\u00e7 yollarda kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.Durumu g\u00f6ren babam, kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 otelde tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 birka\u00e7 arkada\u015f\u0131yla beraber yolda kalan ara\u00e7lar\u0131 kurtarmak i\u00e7in yard\u0131ma gitmi\u015fler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kaderin s\u0131rr\u0131 bu ya, yolda kalan ara\u00e7lardan birinde uluslararas\u0131 \u00e7ocuk hastal\u0131klar\u0131 kongresinden d\u00f6nen \u0130ranl\u0131 Azeri bir \u00e7ocuk doktoru da varm\u0131\u015f. Arac\u0131n\u0131n kardan kurtar\u0131lmas\u0131 vesilesi ile babamla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131p,\u00e7ocu\u011funun durumunu \u00f6\u011frenince beni muayene etmek istemi\u015f. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 kontroller sonras\u0131 \u201cBu tedavi ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu apar\u0131rlar.\u015eu tedaviyi uygulamak gerekir\u201d \u00f6nerisinde bulunmu\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O doktorun verdi\u011fi tedavi sonras\u0131 birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn i\u00e7erisinde iyile\u015fip eve d\u00f6nerken babam \u201cYahu ben adama yard\u0131m ettim, kurtard\u0131m san\u0131yordum.Me\u011fer Allah bize H\u0131z\u0131r gibi bu doktoru g\u00f6ndermi\u015f, \u00e7ocu\u011fumu kurtard\u0131\u2019 diye s\u00f6ylerdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kim Kime Yard\u0131m Etti ?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir t\u0131p kitab\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6ns\u00f6z\u00fcnde okumu\u015ftum. \u2018Ac\u0131 duyan varl\u0131\u011fa canl\u0131 denir. Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 duyan canl\u0131ya insan denir. Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 dindirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan insana hekim denir\u2019 diye yaz\u0131yordu. \u0130nsan olman\u0131n \u015fart\u0131, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 hissetmek ve onu dindirmek i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakt\u0131r. Bu ayn\u0131 zamanda mutlulu\u011fun, ya\u015faman\u0131n gayesini anlaman\u0131n, birlikte var olman\u0131n da bir yoludur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2010 y\u0131l\u0131ndan beri \u00c7aml\u0131ca-K\u0131s\u0131kl\u0131 mahallesinde bir apartman dairesinde oturuyoruz. Bizim apartman kom\u015fumuz ya\u015fl\u0131 bir teyze var. E\u015finin vefat\u0131ndan sonra \u015fizofren o\u011fluyla beraber bir dairede kendi halinde ya\u015f\u0131yor. O\u011flu psikolojik hasta oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in ya\u015fl\u0131 haliyle evin t\u00fcm ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.O\u011flunun ge\u00e7 saatlere kadar sigara duman\u0131 e\u015fli\u011finde y\u00fcksek sesle hezeyan ve ba\u011f\u0131rmalar\u0131na tek ba\u015f\u0131na evde sabreder. Evin ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 ve o\u011flunun sigara paketlerini zar zor y\u00fcr\u00fcyerek marketten kendisi al\u0131rd\u0131. Hayattan s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 bunald\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanlarda da kom\u015fulardan naz\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7eken insanlar\u0131n evine ziyarete giderdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ya\u015fl\u0131 ve yatalak durumda olan annem, ya\u015fl\u0131 teyzenin hem sohbet arkada\u015f\u0131 hem de ziyaret kap\u0131s\u0131 idi. Bize geldi\u011fi zamanlar anemin de \u0131srar\u0131 ile uzun zaman kal\u0131r, hayat\u0131n\u0131n hemen her safhas\u0131n\u0131 detaylar\u0131 ile anlat\u0131rd\u0131. Rize\u2019de \u00e7ok \u00e7ocuklu bir ailenin \u00e7ocu\u011fu olarak d\u00fcnyaya gelmi\u015f, gen\u00e7 ya\u015fta evlendirilmi\u015f, on \u00e7ocu\u011fu olmu\u015f. \u015eizofreni olan evlad\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda kalmaya ba\u015flay\u0131nca di\u011fer evlatlar\u0131 uzakta olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in yaln\u0131z kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Di\u011fer evlatlar\u0131 zaman zaman gelip kendisine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olsalar da \u015fimdi her i\u015fini kendi yapmak ve psikolojik sorunlar\u0131 olan o\u011fluna da bakmak zorundayd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u015eizofren o\u011flu, elli ya\u015f\u0131nda evden d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmayan, kimseyle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeyen, bolca i\u00e7ti\u011fi sigara ve \u00e7ay e\u015fli\u011finde evde y\u00fcksek sesle \u00e7e\u015fitli konularda konu\u015fan biriydi. 6 ayda bir kontrol ve tedavisinin d\u00fczenlenmesi i\u00e7in hastaneye kald\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r, bu i\u015flem i\u00e7in cankurtaran ve polisten yard\u0131m al\u0131n\u0131rd\u0131. Tabii bu anlarda dostlu\u011fumuz, kom\u015fulu\u011fumuz ve tabip oldu\u011fum i\u00e7in ilk bize m\u00fcracaat ederdi. Gerek ya\u015fl\u0131 teyzenin gerekse o\u011flunun hastal\u0131klar\u0131 ve tedavilerinde g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc sa\u011fl\u0131k dan\u0131\u015fmanlar\u0131yd\u0131k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ya\u015fl\u0131 teyzenin zaman ve saat alg\u0131s\u0131 da bozuldu\u011fu i\u00e7in gece saat 01.00\/02.00 saatlerinde de zaman zaman tansiyon \u00f6l\u00e7t\u00fcrmeye veya a\u011fr\u0131 kesici i\u011fne yapt\u0131rmaya gelirdi. Genellikle \u015fizofren o\u011flunun rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve hezeyanlar\u0131 artt\u0131k\u00e7a teyzenin de tansiyon ve a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131 artard\u0131. Defalarca hastanede yat\u0131r\u0131p kontrol edildi\u011fi halde \u00f6nemli bir \u015fey bulamazd\u0131k. Teyze her defas\u0131nda bizlere dualar eder, evlatlar\u0131na bizlerin hakk\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r ve hat\u0131r\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 k\u0131rmamalar\u0131n\u0131 tembih ederdi. Beni kendisine karde\u015f ve evlatlar\u0131na da day\u0131lar\u0131 olarak kabul etti\u011fini s\u00f6yler, benim ya\u015f\u0131mda veya ya\u015f\u00e7a benden b\u00fcy\u00fck evlatlar\u0131na bana sayg\u0131da kusur etmemelerini tembihlerdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Birka\u00e7 y\u0131l \u00f6nce o\u011flum, e\u015fiyle ve 1 ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 hen\u00fcz doldurmam\u0131\u015f o\u011flu ile teyzenin yan\u0131ndaki daireye kirac\u0131 olarak ta\u015f\u0131nd\u0131lar. Hem bize yak\u0131n olacaklar hem de daha geni\u015f bir dairede oturacaklard\u0131. Onlar da yan kom\u015fular\u0131 olan teyzeye h\u00fcrmette kusur etmiyorlar, onun vakitli vakitsiz isteklerine sab\u0131rla yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorlard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kaderin s\u0131rr\u0131d\u0131r bilinmez. \u201cHer g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc H\u0131z\u0131r bil\u201d derler.Sanki bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn hakikati ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti. G\u00fcnler ge\u00e7ip giderken bir g\u00fcn \u00f6\u011fle vakti, gelinim evde k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00d6mer Macit ile ilgilenirken eline yuvarlak \u015fekerlerden vermi\u015f.Biraz sonra oynarken onun aniden nefes alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcn morard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f. Tela\u015fla ve b\u00fcy\u00fck bir panikle \u00fcst kata bizim daireye getirmek i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131n\u0131rken bir \u00fcmit yan kom\u015fular\u0131 olan teyzenin zilini \u00e7alm\u0131\u015f. O s\u0131rada evde bulunan elli be\u015f ya\u015flar\u0131ndaki k\u0131z\u0131 kap\u0131y\u0131 a\u00e7m\u0131\u015f. Durumun ciddiyetini ve acilli\u011fini anlayan g\u00fcng\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f, i\u015f bilen han\u0131mefendi hemen \u00d6mer Macit\u2019i kuca\u011f\u0131na alarak ters \u00e7evirip s\u0131rt\u0131na vurunca nefes borusuna ka\u00e7an \u015feker a\u011fz\u0131ndan d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f. Gelinimin o s\u0131rada ne kadar sevindi\u011fini ne kadar rahatlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatmaya kelimeler yetmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bizler aile olarak ya\u015fl\u0131 teyzeye yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya onun s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 gidermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken ona destek oluyor iyilik yap\u0131yoruz diye seviniyorduk. Ama as\u0131l teyze ve k\u0131z\u0131 bize en b\u00fcy\u00fck iyili\u011fi yapm\u0131\u015f bizim ilk g\u00f6z a\u011fr\u0131m\u0131z torunumuzun hayat\u0131n\u0131 kurtarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bizim i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan bu iyili\u011fin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6denmezdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130yilik, \u0130yile\u015ftirir<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ba\u015fkas\u0131na faydal\u0131 olmak, insanlar\u0131n dertleri ile dertlenmek, k\u0131r\u0131k g\u00f6n\u00fcllere ferahl\u0131k vermek insanlara adeta bir terapi gibi iyi geliyor. Rahmetli Ayhan Songar hocam\u0131z anlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bak\u0131rk\u00f6y ak\u0131l hastanesinde Mazhar Osman hoca ak\u0131l hastalar\u0131na me\u015fguliyet terapileri yapt\u0131r\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. Bazen \u2018T\u00fcrkiye nas\u0131l kurtulur?\u2019 diye proje yapt\u0131r\u0131r, bazen \u2018D\u00fcnya nas\u0131l d\u00fczelir?\u2019 diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015f. Bu me\u015fguliyet terapilerinin hastalara \u00e7ok iyi geldi\u011fini s\u00f6ylerdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir\u00e7ok olayda, tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir\u00e7ok insanda iyili\u011fin iyile\u015ftirici etkisini g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n dertleri ile ilgilenirken kendi dertlerini unutan, ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 dindiren, hayata tekrar \u00fcmitle bakmaya ba\u015flayan, hay\u0131rda yar\u0131\u015fan insanlarla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. K\u0131rk y\u0131ll\u0131k e\u015finden ayr\u0131l\u0131p hayat\u0131n y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ekerken di\u011fer han\u0131mlarla dernek kurup sosyal faaliyetler yapan, \u00e7ocu\u011fu engelli oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in engelli \u00e7ocuklarla ilgilenmeye ba\u015flay\u0131p kendine ve \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u00e7ok daha mutlu bir hayat kuran, i\u015finde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 hay\u0131r faaliyetleri ile atlatan \u00e7ok insan g\u00f6rd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130yili\u011fin iyile\u015ftirici etkisi psikolojik sorunlarda oldu\u011fu gibi bazen organik rahats\u0131zl\u0131klarda da g\u00f6r\u00fclebiliyor. Benim ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ilgin\u00e7 olay ise daha \u00f6nce birka\u00e7 defa \u015fiddetli a\u011fr\u0131larla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm b\u00f6brek ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131n bu defa a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131z d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fclmesi oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u00f6brek ta\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n idrar yollar\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fmesi ve t\u0131kanma olu\u015fturmas\u0131 ile olu\u015fan a\u011fr\u0131lara \u2018renal kolik\u2019 denir. T\u0131p Fak\u00fcltesinde Prof Sami Zan Hocam\u0131z \u2018renal kolik\u2019 a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131rken \u015f\u00f6yle bir canland\u0131rma yapard\u0131. \u201cBir kasabada doktorsunuz, daha yeni tayin oldunuz, bir gece telefonunuz \u00e7ald\u0131. Acil bir hasta i\u00e7in arand\u0131n\u0131z, gitti\u011finiz hasta a\u011fr\u0131dan k\u0131vran\u0131yor, yerdeki can\u0131m antika acem hal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 t\u0131rnaklar\u0131 ile adeta y\u0131rt\u0131yor. \u201cDoktor beni kurtar!\u201d diye yalvar\u0131yor. Anlad\u0131n\u0131z ki \u2018renal kolik.\u2019 Yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir i\u011fne ve serumla hasta biraz sonra rahatlay\u0131p uykuya dal\u0131yor, siz de me\u015fhur doktor oluyorsunuz\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ben de bir\u00e7ok \u2018renal kolik\u2019 a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7eken hastay\u0131 tedavi etti\u011fim gibi kendim de birka\u00e7 defa bu \u015fiddetli a\u011fr\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7ektim. Sanki belinize b\u0131\u00e7ak saplan\u0131yor gibi \u015fiddetli a\u011fr\u0131yla g\u00fcnlerce k\u0131vrand\u0131ktan sonra k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bir ta\u015f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcp rahatl\u0131yorsunuz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 1999 y\u0131l\u0131ndaki G\u00f6lc\u00fck merkezli B\u00fcy\u00fck Marmara Depreminde 35 ki\u015filik g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc sa\u011fl\u0131k ekibi ile birlikte depremzedelere yard\u0131m i\u00e7in birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn G\u00f6lc\u00fck\u2019te kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Deprem y\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n enkazlar\u0131n aras\u0131ndan insan cesetleri \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131l\u0131yor, yaral\u0131 insanlar \u00e7ad\u0131rlarda zorluklarla tedavi ediliyordu.Bizler, her \u015feyini bir anda kaybetmi\u015f insanlara yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorduk. \u00c7ok zor ve yorucu g\u00fcnlerin ard\u0131ndan \u0130stanbul\u2019a d\u00f6nd\u00fck.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m hastanede g\u00f6reve ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ilk g\u00fcn hafif bir a\u011fr\u0131yla tuvalete gittim. Bir anda bu hafif a\u011fr\u0131yla daha \u00f6nce g\u00fcnlerce \u2018renal kolik\u2019 a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131yla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcremedi\u011fim bir b\u00f6brek ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok rahat bir \u015fekilde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrd\u00fcm. Bu ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 G\u00f6lc\u00fck\u2019te ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z dualar\u0131n bu d\u00fcnyadaki bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi hissettim. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130nanan bir insan\u0131n hayat\u0131ndaki en \u00f6nemli \u00f6nceliklerden biri de \u2018k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklere mani olmak ve iyilikleri \u00e7o\u011faltmakt\u0131r.\u2019 \u0130yilikleri \u00e7o\u011faltmak hem sosyal hem de ferdi olarak fayda sa\u011flar. Toplumun yaralar\u0131n\u0131 sarar, iyile\u015ftirici etkisi ile dalga dalga insanlar\u0131 sarar. Psikolojik, sosyal ve fiziksel olarak da iyile\u015ftirir. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta, iyilikleri \u00e7o\u011faltmaya, iyilerle birlikte olmaya ve k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckleri azalt\u0131p mani olmaya ne kadar \u00e7ok ihtiya\u00e7 var.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u201c Asra Yemin olsun ki, insano\u011flu ziyandad\u0131r. 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