{"id":513,"date":"2025-02-10T11:22:51","date_gmt":"2025-02-10T08:22:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/?p=513"},"modified":"2025-02-21T15:33:49","modified_gmt":"2025-02-21T12:33:49","slug":"iyi-bir-dost-guzel-bir-insan-ismet-yilmaz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/2025\/02\/10\/iyi-bir-dost-guzel-bir-insan-ismet-yilmaz\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130yi bir dost, g\u00fczel bir insan, D\u00fcr\u00fcst ve Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir Y\u00f6netici ; \u0130smet Y\u0131lmaz"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Biz \u0130smet Bey ile hem yak\u0131n arkada\u015f, hem aile dostu, mahalle kom\u015fusu hem de okul arkada\u015f\u0131y\u0131z. \u00c7ocukluk ve ilk gen\u00e7lik y\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131z birlikte dost olarak ge\u00e7ti. G\u00fcr\u00fcn-\u00c7ar\u015f\u0131ba\u015f\u0131 mahallesinde \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzda bo\u015f alanlarda \u00e7elik \u00e7\u00f6mlek, bilye yuvarlama, yakan<br>topu..vs oynard\u0131k. Bu oyunlarda bile hem liderli\u011fi ve becerisi hem de sa\u011flam muhakemesi ile<br>genelde \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131<br>Ortaokuldan sonra \u0130stanbul-Haydarpa\u015fa lisesine gitti\u011finde yaz tatillerinde g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrd\u00fck. O Sivas \u015fivesi yerine g\u00fczel \u0130stanbul leh\u00e7esi ile konu\u015furken ben de \u0130stanbul da olman\u0131n hayallerini kurard\u0131m. \u00dcniversiteye<br>ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bu defa Vefa ilim yayma yurdunda arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131rken sanki Anadolu<br>erenleri yeniden ya\u015f\u0131yormu\u015f gibi anlatt\u0131klar\u0131 dostluklar\u0131 ve g\u00fczellikleri dinlerdim.<br>Ben de 1979 y\u0131l\u0131nda Cerrahpa\u015fa T\u0131p Fak\u00fcltesini kazanarak \u0130stanbul a geldim. Tabii ki onun ile birlikte<br>kalmak i\u00e7in Vefa yurduna yerle\u015ftim. \u00dcniversitelerin sa\u011f-sol kavgas\u0131 ile kavruldu\u011fu y\u0131llarda biz<br>bu ate\u015f \u00e7emberi i\u00e7erisinde adeta g\u00fcl bah\u00e7esinde ya\u015fad\u0131k. \u0130stanbul un manevi ilim ve irfan<br>ehlini tan\u0131d\u0131k. \u00d6zellikle Fatih ve Eyyub sultan \u00e7evresinde manevi ilim sohbetlerinde, alimlerden, derin \u0130slami bilgileri ve hakikatleri tertemiz, ak\u0131c\u0131, \u0130stanbul T\u00fcrk\u00e7esi ile anlat\u0131lan sohbetleri, hadisi \u015ferifleri dinler, adeta bir asr\u0131 saadet iklimini hissederdik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130lim yayma yurdunda kal\u0131rken 3 G\u00fcr\u00fcnl\u00fc arkada\u015f birlikte bir b\u00fcy\u00fck kavanoz pekmez alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k.<br>Kahvalt\u0131da birlikte yer, gelen t\u00fcm arkada\u015flara da ikram ederdik. Ad\u0131m\u0131z \u2018<strong>Pekmezciler ekibi\u2019<\/strong> ne<br>\u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Pekmez yiyenin kafas\u0131 daha iyi \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r der g\u00fclerdik.<br>C<strong>\u00f6mert bir insand\u0131..<\/strong><br>Talebelik y\u0131llar\u0131nda hemen t\u00fcm \u00f6\u011frenciler burs ve kredi al\u0131yorduk. \u0130smet bey burs ve kredi<br>almad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi ailesinden gelen har\u00e7l\u0131klardan bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 ihtiyac\u0131 olan arkada\u015flara bor\u00e7 olarak<br>verirdi. Denizcilik okulundan mezun olup gemi ile uzun yurtd\u0131\u015f\u0131 seyahatlerine gitti\u011finde<br>bir\u00e7ok arkada\u015f beni arayarak \u0130smet beyi sorarlard\u0131. Hepsinin ortak iste\u011fi ayn\u0131 idi. Bor\u00e7<br>ald\u0131klar\u0131 paray\u0131 iade etmek istiyorlar ama ya onu bulam\u0131yorlar ya da bulsalar da geri almaya<br>ikna edemiyorlard\u0131. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yine b\u00f6yle bir bor\u00e7 iade etmek i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan tatl\u0131 \u00e7eki\u015fmeye \u015fahit olmu\u015ftum. \u00d6\u011frencilik y\u0131llar\u0131nda maddi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ya\u015fayan bir arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z mezun olup hayata at\u0131l\u0131nca maddi durumu d\u00fczelmi\u015f, ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 borcu \u00f6demek istiyordu. \u0130smet bey de ben o paray\u0131 geri almam helal olsun diye almak istemiyordu. O s\u0131rada bizde G\u00fcng\u00f6ren semtinde bir vak\u0131f ad\u0131na anaokulu a\u00e7maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorduk. Sen borcunu ver sende hayr\u0131n\u0131 anaokuluna yap diye \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcrettik. Her iki arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n da r\u0131zas\u0131 ile o borcu ba\u011f\u0131\u015f olarak ald\u0131k.<br><br><strong>Vefal\u0131 bir insand\u0131.<\/strong>.<br>1980-84 y\u0131llar\u0131nda \u0130stanbul un \u00e7e\u015fitli semtlerinde farkl\u0131 \u00fcniversitelerde okuyan 30 kadar<br>G\u00fcr\u00fcnl\u00fc arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z vard\u0131. Onlar\u0131 ziyaret eder yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131k. Her ay G\u00fcr\u00fcnl\u00fc<br>\u00f6\u011frencileri bir yerde toplay\u0131p sohbet eder ikramlarda bulunurduk. \u0130kramlar\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmez gizli<br>sponsoru \u0130smet bey olurdu. O talebe har\u00e7l\u0131klar\u0131 ne bereketli olurdu ki ikramlarla bitmez, bor\u00e7<br>verir t\u00fckenmezdi.<br>Yaz tatillerinde G\u00fcr\u00fcn de dostlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve akrabalar\u0131 ziyaret eder muhabbet tazelerdik. Bir<br>defas\u0131nda 8-10 arkada\u015f Telin\u2019de bir arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ziyarete gitmi\u015ftik. Telinli arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z<br>H\u00fcsamettin bize bal\u0131k tutmak i\u00e7in serpme a\u011f ile \u00e7ok u\u011fra\u015fm\u0131\u015f ama tek bir k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck sazan bal\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ba\u015fka bal\u0131k tutamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Neyse ki arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n annesi \u00e7orba ve \u0131spanak yeme\u011fi haz\u0131rlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131, arkada\u015f ikramda mahcup olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bizim i\u00e7in tatl\u0131 bir an\u0131 oldu.<br>Denizyollar\u0131nda gemilerde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken gitti\u011fi uzak limanlardan mektup ve kartpostal atar,<br>hat\u0131r\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sormay\u0131 ihmal etmezdi. \u0130stanbul\u2019a geldi\u011finde de uzak diyarlardan getirdi\u011fi orijinal<br>hediyeleri verirdi. Bir defas\u0131nda Singapur\u2019dan Hindistan cevizi getirmi\u015fti. \u00d6\u011frenci evinde<br>keser, nacak, sat\u0131r ile zar-zor k\u0131rarak i\u00e7indeki bir bardak suyu d\u00f6ke sa\u00e7a i\u00e7mi\u015ftik.<br><strong>Memleketine, evine, ailesine \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnd\u00fc.<\/strong><br>Her yaz tatili mutlaka G\u00fcr\u00fcn e gelir \u00f6nce ailesinin g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc al\u0131r sonrada arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ziyaret<br>ederdi. S\u0131k s\u0131k k\u00f6yleri olan G\u00fcne\u015f k\u00f6y\u00fcne gidip di\u011fer akrabalar\u0131n\u0131 da ziyaret etmeyi ihmal<br>etmezdi. Yaz tatillerinde bo\u015f durmay\u0131 sevmez bol bol kitap okur, fikir sohbetleri yapar,<br>foto\u011fraf\u00e7\u0131l\u0131k kursuna gider, ailesine yard\u0131m edecek i\u015flerle u\u011fra\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Denizyollar\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken<br>uzun deniz seyahatleri s\u0131ras\u0131nda ayn\u0131 zamanda Hukuk fak\u00fcltesini de bitirmi\u015fti<br><strong>Kul hakk\u0131na, helal ve harama \u00e7ok dikkat ederdi.<\/strong><br>Hukuk Fak\u00fcltesi\u2019nden sonra denizcilik i\u015fletmelerinde \u0130stanbul da avukat olarak g\u00f6reve<br>ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Ziyarete giden arkada\u015flar mesai saatlerine \u00e7ok hassas oldu\u011funu, mesai s\u0131ras\u0131nda<br>devletin kalemini ve k\u00e2\u011f\u0131d\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zel i\u015flerinde kullanmamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, devlet-millet hakk\u0131<br>konusunda \u00e7ok hassas oldu\u011funu anlatm\u0131\u015flard\u0131. Arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan bir menfaat beklemez,<br>elinden geldi\u011fince onlara destek olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Bir \u015fey ikram edilecekse \u00f6nce o ikram<br>etmeliydi.<br><strong>M\u00fctevazi bir insand\u0131..<\/strong><br>Dostlar\u0131na, yak\u0131nlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fck taslamaz onlarla ayn\u0131 samimiyet ve muhabbetle<br>g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrd\u00fc. Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve m\u00fcste\u015farl\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6neminde en yo\u011fun zamanlar\u0131nda bile dostlar\u0131n\u0131 ihmal<br>etmez hal ve hat\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 sorar m\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcllerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. O\u011flumun d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcne<br>kat\u0131l\u0131p g\u00fczel bir konu\u015fma yapt\u0131. \u2018<strong>K\u0131z evden gider ama o\u011flan elden gider<\/strong>\u2019 diye tatl\u0131 bir espri ile<br>ho\u015f bir hat\u0131ra b\u0131rakt\u0131. Annemin vefat\u0131n\u0131 duyunca birka\u00e7 saat sonra daha cenaze kalkmadan, taziyet<br>ziyaretine gelmesi unutulmaz de\u011ferde hat\u0131ralar\u0131mdand\u0131r.<br><strong>Anadolu erenlerini severdi.<\/strong><br>\u0130stanbul\u2019da \u00f6\u011frencilik y\u0131llar\u0131nda en \u00e7ok Fatih camii \u00e7evresi, Ey\u00fcp Sultan camii \u00e7evresi ve Yahya<br>efendi dergah\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok sever, s\u0131k s\u0131k ziyaret ederdik. Hatta bir defas\u0131nda Eyup Sultan\u2019dan<br>Be\u015fikta\u015f\u2019a Yahya efendi dergah\u0131na kadar yakla\u015f\u0131k 5-6 km yolu sohbet ederek gittik.<br>Be\u015fikta\u015f\u2019ta, denizcilerin piri, Kanuni Sultan S\u00fcleyman\u0131n s\u00fct karde\u015fi Yahya efendi dergah\u0131 en<br>sevdi\u011fi mekanlardand\u0131.<br>Dolmabah\u00e7e ile Be\u015fikta\u015f aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7\u0131nar a\u011fa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6lgesinde Osmanl\u0131 ihti\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 yans\u0131tan<br>yolda y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyi \u00e7ok severdi.<br>G\u00fcr\u00fcn\u2019e geldi\u011fimizde yaz tatillerinde en s\u0131k u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yerlerden biride Darende de<br>Somuncu Baba dergah\u0131 idi. Rahmetli Hulusi efendi\u2019yi ziyaret eder sohbet ve<br>nasihatlerinden istifade ederdik. <strong>\u0130nsanl\u0131\u011fa Nasihat <\/strong>\u015fiiri en sevdi\u011fimiz \u015fiirlerdendi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>G\u00f6n\u00fcl ehli, irfan sahibi, Anadolu erenlerini seven, yi\u011fit bir Anadolu \u00e7ocu\u011fudur. Bizim k\u00fclt\u00fcr<br>ve medeniyetimizle yo\u011frulmu\u015f, bat\u0131y\u0131 da, do\u011fuyu da iyi bilen bir insand\u0131r.<br><strong>\u015eiir ve Hikmetli S\u00f6zleri severdi.<\/strong><br>En \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fi \u015fiirlerden biri Erzurumlu \u0130brahim Hakk\u0131 hz lerinin \u2018<strong>Hak \u015ferleri hayr<br>eyler\/zannetme ki gayr eyler\/G\u00f6relim Mevla neyler\/ Neylerse g\u00fczel eyler <\/strong>\u015fiiridir.<br>Genelde konu\u015fmalar\u0131nda kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u2018<strong>nasipse olur, hay\u0131rl\u0131s\u0131 olsun, Nasipse el getirir, yel<br>getirir, sel getirir\/ Nasip de\u011filse el g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr, yel g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr, sel g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr\u2019 <\/strong>\u2018<strong>S\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz Hak, Y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcz<br>ak olsun\u2019<\/strong> s\u00f6zleri halk irfan\u0131yla yo\u011frulmu\u015f s\u00f6zlerdendir.<br>Ayr\u0131ca Necip Faz\u0131l \u0131n Sakarya T\u00fcrk\u00fcs\u00fc ve \u00c7ile \u015fiirlerini, Sezai Karako\u00e7 un S\u00fcrg\u00fcn \u00fclkeden<br>ba\u015fkentler ba\u015fkentine \u015fiirini sever birlikte okurduk.<br>Abdurrahim karako\u00e7 un Mektup Yazd\u0131m Hasana, Ha Hasan Ha sana, Hakim Bey ve Tohdur<br>bey \u015fiirlerini \u00e7ok severek okurduk.<br>En sevdi\u011fi t\u00fcrk\u00fcler A\u015f\u0131k Veyselin \u2018Sivas ellerinde saz\u0131m \u00e7al\u0131n\u0131r\u2019 ve \u2018Uzun ince bir yolday\u0131m \u2018<br>Kazanc\u0131 Bedih in derledi\u011fi t\u00fcrk\u00fclerden \u2018 \u00d6mr\u00fcm\u00fc yedin bu nas\u0131l sevdad\u0131r\/D\u00fcnya g\u00f6z\u00fcmde<br>Kerbela d\u0131r..\u2019 t\u00fcrk\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc sever.<br>Bir defa bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6neminde ziyaret etti\u011fimizde Osmanl\u0131-Divan \u015fiiri uzman\u0131 Hayati \u0130nan\u00e7 bey<br>den \u015fiir dinledi\u011fine ve her g\u00fcn manal\u0131-hikmetli bir beyit g\u00f6ndermesini istedi\u011fine \u015fahit oldum.<br>Hayati bey ertesi g\u00fcn \u015f\u00f6yle bir beyit payla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<br><strong>Kimseye kalmaz bu cihan m\u00fclk-i devlet sim-\u00fc zer\/Bir harap olmu\u015f g\u00f6n\u00fcl tamir etmektir h\u00fcner<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130smet bey k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flardan beri g\u00fczel ahlakl\u0131, c\u00f6mert, samimi, vefal\u0131 bir insand\u0131. Geldi\u011fi her<br>makam ve mevkide kibir ve gurur g\u00f6stermeden, , \u00fclkesini, milletini severek, do\u011fup b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc topraklar\u0131, Sivas&#8217;\u0131, G\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc ihmal etmeden hizmet eden, manevi-insani de\u011ferleri benimseyen, ayn\u0131 zamanda evrenselli\u011fi yakalamay\u0131 ba\u015faran g\u00fczel insanlardan biridir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mevlana\u2019n\u0131n pergel benzetmesi ile \u2019<strong>Bir aya\u011f\u0131m Kuran ve S\u00fcnnetin de\u011ferlerinde sabit, di\u011fer aya\u011f\u0131mla t\u00fcm insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 dola\u015f\u0131r\u0131m<\/strong>\u2019 dedi\u011fi gibi manevi ve evrensel de\u011ferleri bir arada ta\u015f\u0131maktad\u0131r. Hem G\u00fcr\u00fcn-Sivas\u2019a hem de \u00fclkemize, milletimize yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hizmetler unutulmaz. Allah yar ve yard\u0131mc\u0131s\u0131 olsun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Biz \u0130smet Bey ile hem yak\u0131n arkada\u015f, hem aile dostu, mahalle kom\u015fusu hem de okul arkada\u015f\u0131y\u0131z. \u00c7ocukluk ve ilk gen\u00e7lik y\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131z birlikte dost olarak ge\u00e7ti. <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/2025\/02\/10\/iyi-bir-dost-guzel-bir-insan-ismet-yilmaz\/\" title=\"\u0130yi bir dost, g\u00fczel bir insan, D\u00fcr\u00fcst ve Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir Y\u00f6netici ; \u0130smet Y\u0131lmaz\">[Devam\u0131]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":528,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-513","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/513","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=513"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/513\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":530,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/513\/revisions\/530"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/528"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=513"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=513"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=513"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}