{"id":579,"date":"2025-03-11T16:13:30","date_gmt":"2025-03-11T13:13:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/?p=579"},"modified":"2025-03-13T07:17:22","modified_gmt":"2025-03-13T04:17:22","slug":"zor-zamanda-aileyi-konusmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/2025\/03\/11\/zor-zamanda-aileyi-konusmak\/","title":{"rendered":"Zor Zamanda Aileyi Konu\u015fmak"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Zor zamanda konu\u015fmak da zordur susmak da…
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Ne s\u00f6ylenenin anla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131, kimsenin kimseyi dinlemedi\u011fi, ne de s\u00f6z\u00fcn de\u011ferinin kalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zor
zamanlar vard\u0131r. Ahir zaman fitneleri bu olsa gerek dedi\u011finiz zamanlar. M\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131
k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00f6leninde \u00f6ld\u00fcreninde \u2018Allah-u Ekber\u2019 diye ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 , kimin d\u00fc\u015fman kimin dost oldu\u011funun tam anla\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zor zamanlar vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n


B\u00f6yle zamanlarda s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacak limanlar gibi bilge insanlar arar toplum. Mevlana gibi engin, Yunus Emre gibi ar\u0131, duru, samimi, i\u00e7ten insanlar arar. Y\u00fcre\u011finin yaras\u0131n\u0131 saracak, i\u00e7indeki alevlere su serpecek, s\u0131zlayan g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc dindirecek birka\u00e7 kelam etmek ister. Daha \u00e7ok susmak ister insan, ne s\u00f6ylese anlams\u0131z kalacak diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Sukutun derinli\u011finde, dili kalbinde Hak a\u015f\u0131klar\u0131 ile bulu\u015fur insan.
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\u201cBekle dost kap\u0131s\u0131n sad\u0131k dost isen\u00a0\/ G\u00f6n\u00fcller tamir et ehli dil isen\u00a0
Sevda sahras\u0131nda Mecnun de\u011filsen\u00a0\/ Ne Leyla’y\u0131 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r ne \u00e7\u00f6l\u00fc incit\u201d\u00a0
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Zor Zamanda Aileyi, Evlili\u011fi Konu\u015fmak..<\/strong>
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Zor zamanda aileyi, evlili\u011fi, nikah\u0131, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, bayram\u0131\u2026 vs konu\u015fmak zordur. Bazen hafiflik, dertsizlik,
bo\u015f vermi\u015flik, d\u00fcnyaya-e\u011flenceye dalm\u0131\u015fl\u0131k gibi alg\u0131lan\u0131r.
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T\u00fcrkiye ve d\u00fcnya zor \u015fartlar alt\u0131nda iken evlilik ve aile i\u015fleri ile u\u011fra\u015f\u0131l\u0131r m\u0131.. Ter\u00f6r belas\u0131 ile u\u011fra\u015f\u0131rken, d\u00fcnyada \u015fer g\u00fc\u00e7ler bizlere sald\u0131r\u0131rken,ekonomik-siyasi bir sava\u015f ortam\u0131 varken aile, evlilik, nikah, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn, ziyaret.. vs konu\u015fulur mu.. M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n bu kadara derdi varken sen ne dertsizsin.. der insanlar..
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Suriye\u2019de , Irak ta, Afganistan\u2019da ,Myanmar \u2018da\u2026d\u00fcnyan\u0131n her yerinde M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar zul\u00fcm
alt\u0131ndayken sen aileyle, nikahla, evlilikle, gen\u00e7leri evlili\u011fe te\u015fvik etmekle mi u\u011fra\u015f\u0131yorsun.. diye sitem
edenler olur.
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Bu sorular\u0131 ve sitemleri dostlardan da duyuyoruz, kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyam\u0131zda da tart\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz.Acaba yanl\u0131\u015f
m\u0131 yap\u0131yoruz..? Ger\u00e7eklerden uzak fildi\u015fi kulelerde ya\u015fayan insanlar gibi miyiz.?
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\u0130slam toplumunun temeli me\u015fru nik\u00e2hla kurulmu\u015f ailedir.
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Evlili\u011fi, nikah\u0131, aileyi konu\u015fmak, \u0130slam toplumunun temelini sa\u011flamla\u015ft\u0131rmak ve korumakt\u0131r. Me\u015fru
olan\u0131 te\u015fvik etmek, gayrime\u015fru olan\u0131 engellemektir ayn\u0131 zamanda. \u0130slam toplumu me\u015fru olan\u0131 te\u015fvik
eder, gayrime\u015fru olan\u0131 , fuh\u015fu, sap\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131, homoseks\u00fcelli\u011fi , zinay\u0131 yasaklar
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Evlili\u011fi, nikah\u0131, aileyi konu\u015fmak ve desteklemek M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n gelece\u011fini bina etmektir. Sa\u011flam bir
toplum yap\u0131s\u0131 ancak sa\u011flam kurulmu\u015f ailelerle m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabilir.
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Evlilik, nikah b\u00fct\u00fcn Peygamberlerin s\u00fcnneti ve tavsiyesidir. Bizde bu tavsiye adet olmu\u015ftur \u2019Allah\u2019\u0131n
emri , Peygamberin kavli\u2019 ile deriz..
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\u0130slam toplumunu olu\u015fturmak, gen\u00e7lerimizi gelece\u011fe haz\u0131rlamak, davam\u0131z\u0131n nesillerimizde devam
etmesini sa\u011flamak istiyorsak nikah\u0131, evlili\u011fi ve aileyi \u00e7ok \u00f6nemsemek, te\u015fvik etmek zorunday\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u0131yamet kopacak bile olsa elindeki fidan\u0131 dik der Resulullah. En zor zamanda bile hay\u0131rlar\u0131 yapmaya,
g\u00fczellikleri \u00e7o\u011faltmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakt\u0131r bize yak\u0131\u015fan. .Hem en zor meseleleri konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131z, Suriyeyi,
Yemeni, Irak\u0131, Afganistan\u0131, Myanmar\u0131\u2026vs konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131z. Hem de M\u00fcmin\u2019ce ya\u015famay\u0131, dostlu\u011fu,
karde\u015fli\u011fi, sohbeti, muhabbeti, evlili\u011fi ve nikah\u0131..ya\u015famaya, ya\u015fatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131z.
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Yol \u00fczerinde insanlara eziyet veren \u015feyleri kald\u0131rmak iman\u0131n \u015fubelerindendir der Resulullah.
Gen\u00e7li\u011fin akl\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7elen, fuh\u015fa, gayrime\u015fruya y\u00f6nlendiren, \u015fehvet tuza\u011f\u0131na d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcren ..\u015feytanlara kar\u015f\u0131
en etkili ila\u00e7t\u0131r nikah ve evlilik..
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Asr\u2019a Yemin olsun ki..<\/strong>
Asr suresi insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yeniden ihya edecek, ba\u015ftan sona d\u00fczeltecek bir hikmet ve geni\u015fli\u011fe
sahiptir. Her zaman ve as\u0131rda, her mekan ve durumda size kurtulu\u015fun anahtar\u0131n\u0131 verir.
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\u0130man edip Salih ameller i\u015fleyerek, iyili\u011fi ve g\u00fczelli\u011f \u00e7o\u011faltmay\u0131 tavsiye eder.
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Asra,ak\u0131p giden zamana, and olsun ki..\/ \u0130nsano\u011flu muhakkak ki ziyandad\u0131r.
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\u0130man edip Salih ameller i\u015fleyenler \/birbirine Hakk\u0131 ve Sabr\u0131 tavsiye edenler m\u00fcstesna..
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Evet bize emir olunan, tavsiye olunan, her as\u0131rda, her zamanda, her \u015fartta \u0130man edip, Salih amel
i\u015flemek, Hakk\u0131 ve Sabr\u0131 tavsiye etmektir. Salih amelleri, g\u00fczellikleri, iyilikleri \u00e7o\u011faltmak, d\u00fcnyada ve
toplumda iyinin ve g\u00fczelin h\u00e2kimiyetini sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakt\u0131r.
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Bizim derdimizle dertlenmeyen bizden de\u011fildir.
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Bir kul karde\u015fine yard\u0131m ederse Allah CC da onun i\u015flerine yard\u0131m eder hadisi \u015ferifi en g\u00fczel
m\u00fckafatt\u0131r bize. Karde\u015flerimizin her hay\u0131rl\u0131 i\u015fine yard\u0131m etmek hay\u0131r kap\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r k\u0131ymetini bilene..
M\u00fcminlerin i\u015flerine ihtimam g\u00f6stermeyen bizden de\u011fildir der Peygamberimiz. (Ramuz 447\/1)
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\u015eam\u2019 da minber yapan usta\u2026<\/strong>
Anlat\u0131l\u0131r ki \u015eam\u2019da \u00e7ok kaliteli Minber yapan bir usta varm\u0131\u015f. En g\u00fczel minberini yap\u0131p
at\u00f6lyesinin bir kenar\u0131na koymu\u015f. Kimselere satmaz, hi\u00e7bir bahaya de\u011fi\u015fmezmi\u015f. Soranlara da
\u2018Ben o minberi Kudus \u2018te Mescid-i Aksa i\u00e7in yapt\u0131m, o minber ancak oraya yak\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u2019 dermi\u015f.
G\u00fclermi\u015f, insanlar alay ederlermi\u015f usta ile. Kudus ha\u00e7l\u0131lar\u0131n elindeyken, \u0130slam \u00fcmmeti b\u00f6l\u00fck
b\u00f6l\u00fck da\u011f\u0131n\u0131kken kim koyacak o minberi Mescid-i Aksa ya derlermi\u015f. Usta soranlara dermi ki ;
\u2018Ben bir ustay\u0131m, elimden gelen en iyi minberi yapmakt\u0131r. Elbet bir g\u00fcn o minberi yerine
koyacak Selahaddin gibi bir yi\u011fit gelecektir.
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Bizde her birimiz i\u015fimizi iyi yapsak, ailemizi sa\u011flam m\u00fcmin aileler, evlatlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flam m\u00fcmin
evlatlar yeti\u015ftirsek Allah bize de Salih kullar\u0131na vaat etti\u011fi Nizam-\u0131 \u00c2lemi ihsan edecektir.
\u2018Bir toplum neye lay\u0131k ise \u00f6yle idare olunur\u2019 ilahi h\u00fckm\u00fcnce \u0130slam\u2019\u0131n o g\u00fczel toplumuna
kavu\u015fmak i\u00e7in ona lay\u0131k insanlar, ona lay\u0131k aileler ve ona lay\u0131k toplumlar olmal\u0131y\u0131z. Hem t\u00fcm
cihandaki mazlumlar\u0131n yard\u0131mc\u0131s\u0131, hamisi, dostu, karde\u015fi olmal\u0131y\u0131z. Zalimlerin hasm\u0131, rakibi,
zulm\u00fcne mani olan olmal\u0131y\u0131z. Hem de hayat\u0131 M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanca ya\u015faman\u0131n, dostlu\u011fun, karde\u015fli\u011fin ,
ailenin, ticaretin\u2026 gere\u011fini yapmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Zor zamanda konu\u015fmak da zordur susmak da… Ne s\u00f6ylenenin anla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131, kimsenin kimseyi dinlemedi\u011fi, ne de s\u00f6z\u00fcn de\u011ferinin kalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorzamanlar vard\u0131r. Ahir zaman fitneleri bu olsa [Devam\u0131]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":532,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-579","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/579","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=579"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/579\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":598,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/579\/revisions\/598"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/532"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=579"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=579"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=579"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}