Yurtd\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ya\u015fayan teyzesinin hen\u00fcz ni\u015fanl\u0131s\u0131 ile tan\u0131\u015fmam\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131 heyecanland\u0131r\u0131yordu
gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131. Nihal Han\u0131m ye\u011feninin ni\u015fan t\u00f6renine kat\u0131lmak i\u00e7in \u0130stanbula gelememi\u015f, hatta b\u00f6yle
alelacele ni\u015fan m\u0131 olur diye sitem bile etmi\u015fti. Asl\u0131nda birazda k\u0131rg\u0131nd\u0131 ya\u015fl\u0131 han\u0131m..Daha 3 ay \u00f6nce
k\u0131sa bir tatil i\u00e7in T\u00fcrkiyeye geldi\u011finde uzun uzun dertle\u015ftikleri ye\u011feni s\u00f6z etmemi\u015fti bu
delikanl\u0131dan\u2026Sen benim sadece teyzem de\u011fil en iyi dostumsun diyen gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131n hayat\u0131 ile ilgili bu
kadar \u00f6nemli bir karar\u0131 verirken kendisine dan\u0131\u015fmam\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131na inanam\u0131yordu.Gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr
g\u00f6rmez k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ge\u00e7iverdi Nihal Han\u0131m\u0131n \u2026\u2019Ah deli k\u0131z \u2018diyebildi sadece ona s\u0131k\u0131ca sar\u0131l\u0131rken\u2026
Gen\u00e7 k\u0131z ise teyzesi ile ge\u00e7irece\u011fi her an\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmek istercesine hemen konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Her
\u015feyin birden bire oldu\u011funu, i\u015fyerinde uzun zamand\u0131r be\u011fendi\u011fi delikanl\u0131 ona evlenme teklif edince
ona evet dedi\u011fini bir \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131da anlatt\u0131 . Otomobile biner binmez foto\u011fraf\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6sterdi ni\u015fanl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u2026
\u2018Anla\u015f\u0131lan yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131 bir delikanl\u0131 benim k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n kalbini \u00e7elmi\u015f \u2018dedi Nihal Han\u0131m.. Resmi dikkatle
incelerken \u2018bu ak\u015fam yeme\u011fe davet etmi\u015fsindir umar\u0131m\u2019 dedi.
Yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131 iyi e\u011fitim g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f gelece\u011fi parlak bir gen\u00e7ti damat aday\u0131.. Gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131n teyzesini \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fini ve
onun d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerine \u00f6nem verdi\u011fini bildi\u011fi i\u00e7in Nihal Han\u0131m \u00fczerinde iyi bir intiba b\u0131rakmak istiyordu.
Ak\u015fam yeme\u011fi biraz resmi bir havada ba\u015flad\u0131. Ama bir s\u00fcre sonra kahkahalar y\u00fckselmeye ba\u015flad\u0131
masadan\u2026 Gen\u00e7 adamda Nihal Han\u0131m\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcs\u00fcne kap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 anla\u015f\u0131lan. 15 g\u00fcn boyunca hemen her
g\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcler gen\u00e7 adam ve ailesi ile \u2026 Nihal Han\u0131m\u0131n tatilinin son g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc de beraber ge\u00e7irdiler .
Teyzesi bavulunu haz\u0131rlamak \u00fczere odas\u0131na gitti\u011finde pe\u015finden ko\u015fturdu gen\u00e7 k\u0131z \u2026 \u2018Ni\u015fanl\u0131m s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131
ge\u00e7ti mi\u2019 diye sordu heyecanla\u2026Olumlu cevap alaca\u011f\u0131na neredeyse emindi. Teyzesi pencereden mavi
g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcne bakarken ona d\u00f6nd\u00fc ve ona de\u011fer verdi\u011fi ve \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli \u015feyler s\u00f6yledi\u011fi zamanlardaki gibi
yumu\u015fak ama kararl\u0131 bir ses tonuyla;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Daha akl\u0131ma gelmeyen b\u00f6yle ufak tefek bir \u00e7ok \u015fey var\u2026Ve hepsi birle\u015fti\u011finde ortaya kocaman bir
ger\u00e7ek \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor\u2026O delikanl\u0131da \u00d6z\u00fcr dileme cesareti ve Te\u015fekk\u00fcr etme nezaketi yok\u2026Cesaretsiz ve
nezaketsiz bir adamla bir \u00f6m\u00fcr ge\u00e7irip ge\u00e7irmemek ise senin karar\u0131n\u2026.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hikayeden \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lacak sonu\u00e7lar;
Te\u015fekk\u00fcr etmek nezaketi ve \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemek cesareti \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir\u2026
Evlenmeden \u00f6nce \u00e7iftler hayat tecr\u00fcbesine g\u00fcvendikleri b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerini almal\u0131lar..
Ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131k d\u00f6nemi \u00e7iftlerin birbirini iyi tan\u0131y\u0131p de\u011ferlendirdikleri bir d\u00f6nem olmal\u0131..<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Yurtd\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ya\u015fayan teyzesinin hen\u00fcz ni\u015fanl\u0131s\u0131 ile tan\u0131\u015fmam\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131 heyecanland\u0131r\u0131yordugen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131. Nihal Han\u0131m ye\u011feninin ni\u015fan t\u00f6renine kat\u0131lmak i\u00e7in \u0130stanbula gelememi\u015f, hatta b\u00f6ylealelacele ni\u015fan m\u0131 olur diye [Devam\u0131]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":638,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-636","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/636","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=636"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/636\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":637,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/636\/revisions\/637"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/638"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=636"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=636"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selahattinsemiz.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=636"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}